Realm of the InterNutter

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spoon theory: a low-spoons-friendly summary

darrenchris:

monsterau:

it’s sort of ironic that the original article on spoon theory costs so many spoons to read, so i decided to write a brief summary for people who need it

  • spoon theory is an analogy
    • in it, spoons = energy
    • you get [x] number of spoons a day ([x] amount of energy), & doing things costs [x] number of spoons ([x] amount of energy)
    • for example, you get 10 spoons today; getting up costs 1, making food costs 2, making a phone call costs 2, watching a tv episode costs 2, etc
  • the purpose of spoon theory is to explain to abled/healthy people what being disabled/chronically ill is like, in a way they might find easier to understand
  • it highlights how little energy disabled/chronically ill people have when compared to abled healthy people, how much more energy things can cost, & how careful they have to be in prioritising what they spend that energy on
  • disabled/chronically ill people also use it as a way of talking about their energy levels
  • if you say “i’m low on spoons”, you’re not just saying you’re low on energy; you’re saying you’re low on energy because you’re disabled/chronically ill
  • for this reason, abled healthy people don’t get to say “i’m low on spoons”

here’s the link to the original article

also worth noting: 

  • creator of spoon theory has said it is okay to apply it to mental illness as well. 
  • your benchmark on whether you’re “sick enough” to use spoons is your own, so if you feel like it applies, it can apply.

I’m going to use the tag “#low on spoons” whenever I’m bitching about being in a depressive mood or actually drained. FYI.

Attention People with OCs

benzarro-smash:

Interested in developing your characters, or just want to talk about them? I’ve created an online questionnaire that will help people flesh out their characters. The best part is, it also doubles as a survey that will let me collect data on what sort of traits people tend to give their OCs. Once I get enough responses I’ll be publishing the results for all of you to see. It’s not academic or for a project, but I think

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tmcb:squidbles:If you're male and watch Steven Universe, then watch Steven Universe. You don't need a useless fandom tag like "Gemtlemen" or...

tmcb:

squidbles:

If you’re male and watch Steven Universe, then watch Steven Universe. 

You don’t need a useless fandom tag like “Gemtlemen” or “Gembro” or “Bro Brobrobro” to do it, just watch it as is. Dumb tags like that are as useless as those awkward “This is not a KIDS show” posts that people use to justify watching certain shows. 

Just watch the shows you enjoy and just chill. 

Plus, you don’t need to “bro” anything up to justify

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Challenge #00804-B073: BSOD'd? BPFB!

internutter:

This is the pink rabbit of happiness. If your story has subject matter that you’re wholly uncomfortable with writing for any reason, the pink rabbit steals the prompt and replaces it with “Write a short story about a pink rabbit”

[AN: The whole point of challenges is that I find my boundaries and ways to wriggle around them :D Image shows a pink, plush rabbit toy with floppy ears and a bow around its neck]

There’s all kinds of

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Challenge #00804-B073: BSOD'd? BPFB!

This is the pink rabbit of happiness. If your story has subject matter that you’re wholly uncomfortable with writing for any reason, the pink rabbit steals the prompt and replaces it with “Write a short story about a pink rabbit”

[AN: The whole point of challenges is that I find my boundaries and ways to wriggle around them :D Image shows a pink, plush rabbit toy with floppy ears and a bow around its neck]

There’s all kinds of damaged

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please help

duskhopper:

i’m kind of freaking out right now. my cat mordechai is sick and i don’t know what’s wrong with him. i can afford to take him to the vet, but i won’t have enough left over for rent because i’m still looking for a new job. i hate having to beg like this, but if you can spare anything i would appreciate it so much. my paypal is evlyn.crowder@gmail.com

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Challenge #00803-B072: How the Flakk do You Stop Human?

Human sweat is so acidic, it can corrode metals. By micrometers and over years, but still

Something there is, an ancient poet wrote, that does not like a wall. The poem was about the forces of entropy versus cogniscent-made structures, but Rael knew for a fact that that ‘something’ also pertained to humans.

They were practically a force of entropy on their own.

Case in point: Shayde.

Not only was she obviously isolated from current societal norms, but she had a large

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Ugh!

Something’s gone wrong with our phones again and life sucks.

Please reblog/talk about my books for me?

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Challenge #00802-B071: Diggy Diggy Hole

“Didn’t anybody tell you that when you are in a hole of your own making, Don’t keep digging.”

Hwell called it a ‘fox hole’, but its dimensions were closer to that of an elephant. And it was now very deep, because the native pests had a long reach that went along with their fear of falling.

It was past dawn. They were gone, now.

“We’re in a hole,” said Hwell. “Um. Too wide to climb out. Loose soil,

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nasty-little-hobbitses: lavendrmenace:Men: Don't look like a trash canWomen: "Look pretty enough to show you're a woman" because the only...

nasty-little-hobbitses:

lavendrmenace:

Men: Don’t look like a trash can
Women: “Look pretty enough to show you’re a woman” because the only thing that matters to be a woman is to be beautiful, also “covered enough to look like a lady” because showing your shoulder will make every man in the audience simaltaneously ejaculate and it will be a big mess. Also if someone stares at your tits and not your face, it’s your fault and you should be ashamed

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