spacemuffinz: ruffiticus: : It never has. telling people that theyre venting and dealing with their problems in the wrong way wont stop...

spacemuffinz:

ruffiticus:

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It never has.

telling people that theyre venting and dealing with their problems in the wrong way wont stop any of these and why is cis in all caps

i didn’t notice the cis thing lol but telling someone they’re wrong doesn’t seem to be a thing anyone on this site is afraid of doing and i know people do learn from it fuck i came on this site because porn and now i can barely stomach it because of all the feminism i’ve learned by accident so maybe me reblogging this will help spread its meaning  and reiterate what should be common sense and maybe stop the cycle of hate before this entire website ends up in a trash overrun by social justice warriors or whatever the term is and everyone with any guile left fleeing to a different site.

this type of thinking, “i hate u cuz u hate me” is toxic and counterproductive and spiteful and useless. stop. please.

That kind of erases the fact that all the people called out in the images above have the right to be upset because they are CONSTANTLY shamed, negated, abused, marginalized, bad-mouthed, insulted and otherwise made to feel bad simply for being themselves.

The whole “hate won’t make it better” thing is yet another way of telling those ostracized groups to shut up. To make way for the cishet, white, skinny, able and very likely more affluent who have had the lifelong privilege of being able to silence and ignore those who are not them.

There’s enough of that nonsense all over this world. How about you spend some time to listen, learn, and become a better person from it?

BTW posting or reblogging shit like this is also “spreading the hate”. But, because it is hating the people who aren’t ‘acceptable’ (cishet white able) that makes it okay?

I can see why you lost followers, now. You flat-out told them that you hate them. You also flat-out told me that you hate me. I’m one of the people you just told to shut up, go away, and stop bothering you in your little privileged paradise. And if that factlet hurts… Maybe you should learn why.